Jesus Feels Your Pain
Someone once told me, “You’re not allowed to use definitions from Webster’s Dictionary when trying to get your point across about God.” Well guess what? I’m gonna do it anyway.
“Jesus wept” (John 11:35), the shortest verse in the Bible, to me, may have the most meaning. A god, crying? Gods don’t do that, they’re gods! All-powerful! Nothing can hurt them! But, the one true God, Jesus, He actually wept–not just cried or sniveled a little—but boohooed, He bawled like a baby. How do I know?
Webster’s Dictionary defines wept as this: “to cry because you are very sad or are feeling some other strong emotion.” OUR GOD CRIED AND GOT EMOTIONAL! Imagine that! And we are created in His image! (See Genesis 1:27). So now we know that we never have to hide how we feel, but instead, look to how Christ handled His feelings.
He actually cried, hard. Weeping is crying hard. I’ll get to why Jesus wept in just a minute. But as we can see in this short verse, God created us to be emotional because He is emotional! It’s okay to be sad. Jesus was sad, very sad that day. So when we feel sad for whatever reason, God simply wants us to, yes, feel our emotions, but then bring those emotions to Him. His Holy Spirit will then comfort us and guide us as to what to do with our emotions.
Don’t be afraid to feel. Feeling is good. Express your feelings, and then don’t feel bad about expressing them. Just don’t sin while expressing them—that’s the key.
And why did Jesus weep? Did He stub His toe in the middle of the night? I’ve wept before because of that. Did He burn His pizza? Again, such sadness I’ve felt after the oven overcooked my pie. No, Jesus wept because He felt the pain of His loved ones. He wept because He is so full of empathy. Let’s do another definition here from ole Webster. He defines empathy as this: “the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.”
The ability to understand and share the feelings of another…Wow…I don’t know about you, but that gives me goosebumps. My God, The Omnipotent One, CREATOR OF HEAVEN AND EARTH, He actually understands and shares my feelings—THAT’S JUST CRAY-CRAY!
Jesus wept that day because one of His best friends, Lazarus, had died; and Lazarus’ two sisters, whom Jesus was very close with as well, they were in a serious state of mourning. But let’s be clear here, Jesus didn’t cry because Lazarus died (his death was part of one of Jesus’ planned miracles, which is power over death), but He cried because of the pain Lazarus’ sisters were feeling. Empathy.
Let’s back up for a sec; four days earlier, Mary and Martha had sent someone to get Jesus because Lazarus’ health was quickly declining—they were afraid he was gonna die and knew Jesus could stop this. “So the sisters sent word to Jesus, ‘Lord, the one you love is sick’ (John 11:3).”
But Jesus purposely waited and didn’t rush over to heal him. Why? Because Jesus had a much better, future purpose for this pain! The Bible says so, “When he heard this, Jesus said, ‘This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God’s glory so that God’s Son may be glorified through it’ (John 11:4 my emphasis added).”
Most of us Christians know the story of Jesus bringing Lazarus back to life, but this message is not about Christ’s amazing power over death. Oh no, this devotional is not about how Jesus allowed—didn’t cause—Lazarus’ death. It’s not about how Jesus let this tragedy happen so that maybe His greatest miracle ever, other than bringing Himself back to life, could happen! NO! THIS MESSAGE IS ABOUT JESUS FEELING OUR PAIN!
But if you’re not familiar with what happened in that story, Jesus walked up to this dead man’s grave and then spoke to one of the latest cast-members of The Walking Dead, saying, “LAZARUS, COME OUT!” And He did! Stumbling out, looking like a mummy, pulling cloths off left and right, JESUS BROUGHT LAZARUS BACK TO LIFE! JUST IMAGINE THE STORIES HE HAD TO TELL! Myyyyyyyy goodness! I get so excited about the things Jesus does! Don’t you?! How awesome is our God?!
But this message isn’t about that. It’s about how Christ feels for those whom He loves—which is all of us—yes, all of us. Gay, straight, black, white, rich, and poor—Jesus feels your pain! NEVER, EVER, EVER THINK THAT NOBODY FEELS YOUR PAIN, BECAUSE JESUS DOES!
AND HE IS THERE FOR YOU! He is longing to enter into a close, personal relationship with you! Do you feel all alone? YOU’RE NOT! Jesus is with you always! He said it, not me, “And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age” (Matthew 28:20).
If you don’t have this relationship with Him yet, simply say, “Jesus, help me,” and He will…He promises. I’m proof of this. I’ve personally been comforted by Him so I know it’s real.
So today, my friends, know this: God weeps. And what makes Him weep? Hurting people. Why? Because He loves us so much. Jesus showed us in this story as He listened to the sisters saying, “If you were just here, this wouldn’t have happened” (see John 11:21, my emphasis added). They were in such a deep sadness and Jesus felt that.
He feels your pain, too. And if you will draw near to Him, He will comfort you, and then show you the good plans that will come out of this. It might be on this side of heaven, or it might not be, but either way, Jesus will eventually reveal it to you. For the sisters, they got to see a miracle which made it to the pages of the Bible. And because Christ is still with us today, in Spirit, He still performs miracles today! He will do so in your life! Just like Mary, Martha, and Lazarus’ lives! So don’t focus so much on what’s causing your pain, but instead, begin to focus on a God who feels your pain deeper than you do–and can do amazing things.
A prayer for you: Heavenly Father, I want to thank you today for my good health. I was just thinking this morning how blessed I am to not have a single ailment in my body, what a blessing. Right now, I lift up all who are reading this, directly to you. For those who are in tremendous pain, I ask that you comfort them with your Holy Spirit. EASE their pain, Lord, please. And as you ease their pain, help them to go even deeper into their relationship with you. Help them begin to understand your unconditional love, and thank you so much for Jesus! What a wonderful gift! Help us to walk out each day as He does, doing good things, being confident in you, and loving others with empathy. Amen!
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